Good Earthkeeping, by Tasha Halpert –
As far as I remember my dad wasn’t one to save things, quite the contrary. He was much more inclined to throw things out. On the other hand, I have a tendency to save anything I think might be useful or could be helpful in time of need — like extra food. I believe I inherited my saving nature from my mother.
Once, when I visited her at her weekend cottage in Maine, I helped her clear out a closet. In the process I found at least three irons and several toasters she had bought at yard sales and stored for future need. I kidded her about it and she told me quite seriously that they might come in handy one day and she was happy to have them.
Another time, in South Carolina where she lived after my father passed on, I was rummaging in her kitchen when I saw she had a number of broken items in the drawers. I asked and she assured me that they could be fixed one day and used again. There was something even more useful in her bathroom. My parents loved to travel and wherever they went, my mother collected the little bottles of shampoo, conditioner, lotion and whatever else that were provided at the places they stayed. They were all lined up in rows on her bathroom sink, filling the entire flat part around the basin.
Perhaps for her they were souvenirs of her trips with my father because she never did use them. She also had rows of toilet paper cardboard tubes stacked next to the toilet. I didn’t ask her why because I am sure she would have had a good reason for why she kept them.
A while ago I noticed I had quite a collection of little bottles saved from trips myself and I decided that rather than purchase shampoo and conditioner I would use them. I didn’t want to be like my mother, hoarding something in case of need and then never getting to make use of it. I came to realize that as I age I must be careful not to take on my parents’ habits.
There is nothing wrong in being of a saving nature; however, to save something indefinitely is counter-productive. When we were moving to our current apartment I discovered I had a lot of out-of-date canned and boxed food on the shelves of my former pantry. Now I realize I need to go through things more often to make sure I use what I have in a timely manner.
My father used to kid my mother because she had kept some linen sheets exactly as she had received them as a wedding present. He would ask her if she was saving them for her next husband. I have been thinking more about my mother’s habit lately and resolving to make use of what I have. After all, what she might not have realized was that once something is gone it may often be replaced by what is even better.
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